you may want to downplay the holiday part. I had an aunt whose birthday was December 24; she hated it because she either didn't get Christmas presents or didn't get birthday presents. Don't think it was more presents she sought, but perhaps having both days recognized and shared.
Have a friend whose birthday is Valentine's Day; I think she's a sweetheart (pun intentional) and try to recognize it as her day. BUT I usually give things that are heart shaped and/or red. The red works out well because it's her favorite color (gee, is that related to her birth date). AND since she loves chocolate, it's not hard to find her something she likes for her birthday because the world is inundated in red and chocolate stuff at this time.
This year it's going to be dinner and a movie and I'm planning on making the dessert (you know, that made especially for you touch). IF you've looked at recipes for chocolate cakes et al, you know you can get immersed in directions and ingredients before you lift a spoon or bowl.
Anyway, I've singled out a recipe for individual chocolate cakes with soft centers and dripping icing. Sounds quite yummy. If I succeed at this, I'll be able to give her delicious enjoyment to take home with her. We'll see. IF this flops, it'll be heart shaped cookies and perhaps they'll come from a bakery.
It's an interesting thing to recognize and celebrate someone's birthday and not just buy a gift. I really think someone's birthday is much more important than the Christmases or Valentines, etc. It's their individual day and should be truly celebrated.
Here's hoping that Monday morning, she'll be talking about the nice dinner, good movie and really good dessert we shared. Mixer ready and fingers crossed.
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