I NEVER GOT THE SCRIPT: What a new year it is already

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

What a new year it is already

and we've only just begun. I speak, of course, of the wonderful weather. I'm not having serious problems from the weather; it's just inconvenient to get out of the subdivision and to the office, which is my reason for not making it in Monday. That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

Frankly, being at the office Monday would've been much more interesting and probably easier than the day I spent with number 1 child. Now, understand, I'm crazy about her and believe she's simply wonderful in many ways; but there's a limit to how much time two adult, familial women can spend together, happily, without problems, getting along, everything seeming okay ......

Atlanta pal that visited Thanxgvng sent me cartoon showing mother and daughter in disagreement (with humor of course). Yeah, she understood from a week end with us. I've been in this situation before, only in the other role.

I remember visits with Mama after I married and moved away. Stressful and challenging. Yet, I loved her dearly and no one can replace her. She was in so many ways a wonderful mother and very annoying person.

I hear it from other people. A dear friend tells me of trips to see her mom, an event that is stressful and must end after three days or so. Funny thing is she and I each seem to be very much like our own mother. Gee, what's that about?!

Anyone who's lost their mom will tell you they'd go through it all again and wish they could still visit her. Isn't that what life's really like, though. Wishing for something else and regretting time wasted.

Weather not withstanding, this year's OK so far with me. Some day I'm going to write an anecdotal explanation of how I refinanced my house. It appears that it will shortly actually be completed, but until it is I've nothing to say.

This week brings a change in duty, or work assignment, one that I can't discuss now. Not something I sought and don't really want. But, you do what you have to. What's that old adage, "I can do anything for one day ....." That's my mantra for a while, one day at a time.

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Cognitive Pause

Now that I'm over sixty, I'm veering toward respectability. --Shelly Winters

Feel the fear and do it anyway. --Letty Cottin Pogrebin, "Getting Over Getting Older"

I used to be Snow White, but I drifted. –Mae West

Housework is a treadmill from futility to oblivion with stop offs at tedium and counter-productivity. –Erma Bombeck

Time is the coin of your life. It is the only coin you have, and only you can determine how it will be spent. Be careful lest you let other people spend it for you. --Carl Sandburg

We must not be enemies. Though passion may have strained, it must not break our bonds of affection. The mystic chords of memory, stretching from every battlefield and patriot grave, to every living heart and hearth-stone, all over this broad land, will yet swell the chorus of the Union when again touched, as surely they will be by the better angels of our nature. --Abraham Lincoln, First inaugural address, March 4, 1861

All the problems we face in the United States today can be traced to an unenlightened immigration policy on the part of the American Indian. --Pat Paulsen

I like long walks, especially when they are taken by people who annoy me. --Noel Coward

A successful parent is one who raises a child who grows up and is able to pay for his or her own psychoanalysis. --Nora Ephron

Mr. Romney, in his campaign to be president, says he will do what he promises ... and if he is elected he should do as he promised ... but I can't tell what he's promising. --a concerned citizen

In the councils of government, we must guard against the acquisition of unwarranted influence, whether sought or unsought, by the military-industrial complex. The potential for the disastrous rise of misplaced power exists and will persist. --Dwight D. Eisenhower

Pictures and shapes are but secondary objects and please or displease only in the memory. --Francis Bacon

He who has health has hope; and he who has hope has everything. –Thomas Carlyle (1795-1881)

You have no more right to consume happiness without producing it, than you do to consume wealth without producing it. --George Bernard Shaw, Candida, Act I, 1898

The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning; but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth. --Ecclesiastes 7:4

Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live; it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. –Oscar Wilde

The older the fiddler, the sweeter the tune. --English Proverb

I like living. I have some problems with my life, but living is the best thing they’ve come up with so far. –Neil Simon

One cannot think well, love well, sleep well, if one has not dined well. ~Virginia Woolf

All I know is just what I read in the papers. --Will Rogers

Everybody can be great... because anybody can serve. You don't have to have a college degree to serve. You don't have to make your subject and verb agree to serve. You only need a heart full of grace. A soul generated by love. --Martin Luther King, Jr.

Hasty resolutions are of the nature of vows, and to be equally avoided. --William Penn

Winter is the time for comfort, for good food and warmth, for the touch of a friendly hand and for a talk beside the fire: it is the time for home. — Edith Sitwell

A lovely thing about Christmas is that it's compulsory, like a thunderstorm, and we all go through it together. --Garrison Keillor

Health is not simply the absence of sickness. --Hannah Green

The most remarkable thing about my mother is that for thirty years she served the family nothing but leftovers. The original meal has never been found. --Calvin Trillin

“. . . decaf is for cowards.” --Jack Kevorkian

If once a man indulges himself in murder, very soon he comes to think little of robbing; and from robbing he next comes to drinking and Sabbath-breaking, and from that to incivility and procrastination. --Thomas De Quincey, Murder Considered as One of the Fine Arts - 1827

Experience is the name so many people give to their mistakes. –Oscar Wilde

Old age though despised, is coveted by all. --Proverb

If you want your dreams to come true, don't over sleep. - -Yiddish Proverb

I believe the true function of age is memory. I'm recording as fast as I can. - -Rita Mae Brown

The only way not to think about money is to have a great deal of it. --Edith Wharton (1862 - 1937)

With the ancient is wisdom; and in length of days understanding. Job 12:12

Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city. - -George Burns

--yep, sometimes you gotta go along to get along.... --a co-worker commenting on getting the job done

I never know what I think about something until I read what I've written on it. --William Faulkner

What the world really needs is more love and less paperwork. --Pearl Bailey, entertainer

The greatness of a nation can be judged by the way its animals are treated. --Mahandas Gandi

The secret of staying young is to live honestly, eat slowly, and lie about your age. --Lucille Ball